Thursday, October 30, 2008

Wedding Ceremony Songs

By Dane Masters

Almost everybody makes music a part of their wedding ceremony. It is a common practice to play music as the bridal entourage arrives and an exclusive song for the lady as she walks towards her future husband waiting at the altar. Then another song is performed following the official announcement of the couple's matrimony and this song is continuously played from the church to the wedding reception. Music that will be used for the ceremony does not have to be traditional. It can be anything that the couple chooses, especially songs that might have some memorable meaning for both of them.

As my fianc and I had to make a selection of songs that will be played in our wedding, I was positively sure I would like to march in another tune than "Here Comes The Bride". I clearly remember that as a child, we use to make fun of this song and add different funny lyrics into it. Besides, I want something distinct and upbeat. So we met with our organ player to discuss with her our choice of music for the wedding.

It came as a shock to me when my fianc who was normally unaffected by such things nor openly comments on a lot of matters suddenly became touchy regarding this decision. We listened to some of the wedding songs we were supposed to choose from and of course, the organist played that song.

When it came time for my husband and I to choose our wedding ceremony songs, I was sure I didn't want to use the usual "Here Comes The Bride" tune when I walked down the aisle. I had childhood memories of that song, which often included the addition of words that were not so flattering. I wanted something different. When it came time to choose our wedding ceremony songs, we decided to meet with the organist to choose some traditional songs there were fit for a wedding, but may not be as popular.

My future husband's reaction to all these was quite unexpected. Just like most of the men I know, he does not offer comments or show reaction about a lot of things. He just observes and keeps pretty much to himself. When organist played the repertoire of music we were to consider, she also naturally played "Here Comes The Bride".

When your turn comes to select the music for your wedding, remember that you do not have to use the traditional songs if you do not want to. There are so many songs that could suit your taste and the occasion. You can search the Internet and ask your musician and friends for suggestions.

This Is a Lifetime Choice, So Take Your Time

There are thousands of songs to select from. The internet, your friends and your organist can give you some innovative ideas. You should pay attention your fianc's reaction to of all this considering that he is the other half for which all this preparation is intended for. - 2361

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