Friday, October 17, 2008

Pickup Artist Fashion Pt. 2

By Vin DiCarlo

(continued from part 1)

There was about a couple of times that I did the peacocking. I did that to see if it worked because I heard that other guys were doing it.

I felt ridiculous, and was totally incongruent with my personality when I went out.

As we all know women love's fashion and they like a well-dressed man.

I noticed that it was in my workout clothes or something really basic - like jeans and a tanktop that some of my best pickups occurred.

At the same time, women definitely did not respond well to those muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club.

This make me think... that maybe this is not on how much the clothes cost or how flashy they are...

I guess there is something else going on.

Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage and balance these two things.

First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make her like you, you are toast.

So if you come like you got dressed with a purpose of getting women's attention, they'll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses.

You DON'T WANT to look like a pick up artist.

It's better to dress modestly, and not put too much thought into it.

However, you need to present yourself in the best way you can and not to look sloppy.

This comes back to self-expression.

You already have a sense of what kind of guy you are, what your "scene" is, what you think is cool.

Do not change that.

Instead, improve it, with these simple tweaks.

This isn't a rocket science. Wear colors that appeal to your skin tone and hair color. Go to an upscale men's clothing store, and ask someone about this. Or look online.

Next, make sure your clothes are clean, and wrinkle free, and reasonably up-to-date. A woman should not have to worry about bringing you around her friends.

Most of all, be sure that your clothes fits well, they BRING OUT YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.

Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders.

Have your legs look long and thin by wearing pants.

Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.

Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent haircut. Shave, or don't, but figure out what looks best and take it all the way.

One other piece...

Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look of a small decoration that says, "yeah, I can fuck."

Make out for your intuition with this one. I don't want to say too much because that's a whole other topic. - 2361

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